~Haute&Natural~

Jurnee Smollett~ Hairspiration!

2009-04-16T17:37:00.000-07:00

I loved her when she was in Full House and Hanging with Mr. Cooper

As she's grown older she has turned into a true vixen

and her hair is the *ish straight or curly!!

Fighting Frizz

2009-04-13T18:10:00.000-07:00

Frizz...some people like it, others don't. I think it gives a little character to a do :) Plus I'm in the hot humid South and almost have no other choice. If you're one of those people who don't like it then I have a few suggestions that will help combat the frizz as we go into warmer days.

-Reduce shampooing to no more than twice a week. Shampoo can tend to dry hair so opt for co-washes for added moisture. Plus you don't want to strip the hair of natural oils. The BEST oils.

-Rinse conditioners with cold water. This helps lock down the hair cuticles and lock in moisture

-Opt for a deep conditioner at least one a week. I have tried various

ones but my favorite thus far has been Pantene R&N Deep Conditioning Mask.

Egg, olive oil, coconut milk, and castor oil are a few great inexpensive deep treatments.

-Sitting under the dryer with a plastic cap helps penetrate the deep conditioner

-Using a leave-in conditioner is also beneficial. Strapped for cash? Mix part rinse-out conditioner with part water in a spray bottle. This will also make a wonderful refresher on hot, dry Summer days.

*Notice the pattern of conditioning ;)

If all else fails and you're desperate to turn to commercial styling aids. Pomades are

good for taming fly aways(I personally like shea butter,castor oil, and KCCC). There are a lot

of anti-frizz control cremes and serums but be sure to beware of -cones. Dimethicone is a light silicone oil that won't harm because normally a little goes a long way. Hope this helps all you curlies trying to preserve your sexy during the warmer days!♥

Happy Easter

2009-04-12T08:42:00.000-07:00

Happy Easter everyone! I hope you curlies have a wonderful day of family and fun. Share your wonderful holiday hairstyles(happynappe@gmail.com) and remember the reason for the season! ♥

Haute Transition

2009-04-10T07:15:00.000-07:00

Curlycurious

~New Jersey~

How long have/did you transition?

I am in my 7^th month of transitioning after having relaxed my hair for about 12 years since I was about 9 years old. My last relaxer was in September 2008.

What is your daily hair regimen?

I just recently changed my regimen from Hello Hydration for co-washes, Lustrasilk Shea as a leave-in, and Africa’s best oil to seal to Aussie Moist and Olive oil. I co-wash my hair usually every other day with Aussie Moist and I use that as a leave-in as well. I seal my hair with olive oil, just a little bit, however, because if I use a lot, it seems to dry out my hair. I also try to take hair vitamins daily. I take MSM (3x a day) Flax Seed Oil (3x a day) and Biotin (2-3x a day). I must admit, though, that I usually fall behind on my vitamins during the weekends because my schedule changes drastically from work and school to more free time, so my vitamin schedule gets thrown off balance.

How do you protect your hair at night?

If I’m trying to do a twist out or a Bantu-knot out (both of which have never turned out right so far) I wear a silk scarf. If it’s just a regular night, I put my hair in a high bun, I guess it’s a bun version of a pineapple— which is, as many of you know, where you pile the hair to the very, very top of you’re head and put it in a loose pony tail.

If you were stranded on a deserted island, what three hair items would you have to have?

I love this question! Well, as a transitioner, I would bring:

1. A brush

2. A hair tie

3. and some kind of conditioner

How do you tackle negative comments about transitioning to Natural?

Well, luckily my mom and my sister are both natural and my boyfriend is supportive because both his mom and sister are natural, though they use heat. And my friends are enthusiastic to see what my real hair looks like—and because most of my friends do not have afro-textured hair, they are kind of jealous that they can’t experience the joy of seeing their natural hair come out in all it’s kinky, curly, coily glory : ).

What made you decide to become a curly girl?

The about me section in my fotki offers a more detailed story. But long story short, I was in an African American History class this past fall semester and I was doing research after reading two slave narratives and found that black people are some of the most unique mixture of people with ancestry from every corner of the world. From then on, I wanted to embrace my blackness, as funny as that sounds, and stop being ashamed of my nappy-ness. Plus, I felt as though I would be robbing myself and my future children the pride in possessing these beautiful black features from our hair to our toes.

Do you have a goal length?

Currently, I’m going back and forth from wanting to do a BC to wanting to wait and just let my hair grow. If I do BC, it will be well after a year into my transition (so technically not a Big Chop haha). As for length, I want my natural hair to be about the same length as my relaxed hair which is a good 12 inches—I haven’t measured so this is just a guess.

Do you have staple treatments (i.e. henna, deep treatment, bentonite)?

I just use Pantene Pro-V relaxed and natural hair mask once and a while in the shower. But as my hair grows I am afraid of breakage so I think I’m going to do longer deep treatments and sit under my hair dryer.

How have you handled your worse hair days?

Brush, water, gel, hair tie….stat! Actually, my hair tied back in to a bun or pony is my main hairstyle, but when I do venture out and try a twist-out or a Bantu-knot out, I have those things on hand because it never turns out right lol!

How do you retain moisture?

Because my hair is always in a bun or a pony, I usually don’t even give it time to properly dry so my hair stays pretty moisturized for the day in between co-washes.

What would be your advice to someone thinking of transitioning?

Stalk fotkis, natural hair blogs, and hair forums! The lovely ladies that have made fotkis of their natural hair/ natural hair journey have inspired me so much that whenever I get discouraged I look at their beautiful hair and it only makes me more determined. Frequently visit the hair blogs, like this one, and the hair forums like naturallycurly.com because they offer a lot of valuable information on a regular basis which has helped me get this far without chickening out. I would also advise a person to make a fotki and document their transition to natural by taking pictures. I, too, find that the when I get discouraged I like to look at my pictures to see my own progress and though it is small it is still noticeable and that makes me smile : ).

If you make any homemade concoctions would you like to share?

I do use this homemade spritz its chilled brewed green tea mixed with a bit of olive oil. I spritz my hair with that whenever I feel it is getting too dry or when I want to spruce up my bun or pony tail

Attention PJ's!

2009-04-09T07:01:00.000-07:00

I'm offering a solution to all the ladies who have been bitten by the product junkie bug! If you have products lying around that just didn't fit your hair regimen or totally didn't work for you, don't just chunk them in file 13...Let Haute & Natural recycle them to a lucky lady via give-a-ways or contest. I will reimburse all standard shipping & handling charges and make some CG out there extra happy :) Contact me at happynappe@gmail.com for details.

Growth Rampage...

2009-04-08T07:08:00.000-07:00

That's what I'm on! I have been heat free since January and I've tweaked my routine a couple of times while trying various products. I really want to achieve shoulder length(or longer) by July.

My current routine

Sun:Poo, rinse-out, ACV clarify, deep treatment

Wed:Co-wash, deep treatment

Fri:Co-Wash, deep treatment

Nightly

Detangle w/ H20 & leave-in, 2 strand twist, sealing ends w/unrefined shea,

message scalp with BB Growth Serum, spray hair w/Juices & Berries

sleep with satin bonnet

Daily

ORS Olive Oil Hair Lotion, honey/AV gel/H20 spritz, BB Growth Serum on scalp

top style off spraying w/ Jucies & Berries

Supplements

GNC Women's Ultra Mega(2X a day)

Nettle 500mg

MSM 1500mg

Fish Oil 300mg

Vitamin E 400IU(2X a day)

Biotin 5000mcg

My shampoo, condish, and deep treatment have varied. I used Dr. Miracle Deep Conditioning Treatment Sunday and I love the way it felt on my scalp. Downfall...mineral oil is high on the list(3rd ingredient) :( I also have AO Honeysuckle Rose, ORS Replenishing Pak, Pantene R&N Mask, and Palmer's Coconut Oil Protein Pack. I was using Cantu Shea Butter Leave-In nightly and I have switched to Creme of Nature Lemongrass & Rosemary Leave-In because I don't want my hair to get use to Cantu and I won't be able to revisit it at a later date. I didn't like how the C of N left my hair feeling so I added jojoba oil and EVOO to it and I'm pleased. I ordered a bottle of Jamacian black castor oil because I've read wonderful things about it being good for growth. Once I receive it I may use it to seal my ends. I also placed an order with my fave company Oyin. Greg Juice and Honey Hemp are on the way! :) I GOTTA kill the PJism so I only plan on visiting my nearby Dollar Tree to purchase my favorite co-wash conditioner, VO5 Clarifying Kiwi & Lime(I was THRILLED to see it there yesterday). I think I have more than enough products to help me on my quest. So ladies, do you think I'm on the right path? Open to any and ALL suggstions!♥

Haute Girl BekkaPoo

2009-04-06T06:26:00.000-07:00

BekkaPoo

from Naturallycurly.com

What made you decide to become a curly girl?
B: Hehe.. I love this question because it’s not like I “became” curly. I was born curly and for a few years during the ages of 10-14 I “became” a permie. I have been natural for most of my life and my perm years were a glitch that has now been corrected. I decided to get rid of my perm forever when I noticed that my hair had broken off right down to the scalp. So I cut my hair down to a ¼ in. fade (about three times btwn age 14-21) as I was learning to work with my natural hair for the first time.

What is your daily hair regimen?

B: My daily regimen is pretty simple, but inconsistent. Something I have always done is using water and a little conditioner to refresh my curls. I also co-wash as needed using Aussie Moist, and detangle about twice a week. By “as needed” I mean whenever my hair is feeling dry or dirty, or if a hair experiment went wrong.

How do you protect your hair at night?

B: At night I mainly just sleep on a satin pillowcase and I will alternate btwn a loose pineapple, overnight ponytail roller set, or I just leave it out. Right now it’s too short to be a nuisance on my pillow if I wear it out in my sleep. I give my hair a basic level of protection at night with the pillowcase and usually that is enough. I think too much overnight styling and leaving my hair in buns or ponys is causing some of my hair to break off in a halo, so I have to be careful how often and how tightly I pull back my hair at night.

If you were stranded on a deserted island, what three hair items would you have to have?

B: Ohh good question..well my hair actually likes salt water so in theory, I might not need much extra on a deserted island. But most definitely number one on the list would be raw natural organic SHEA BUTTER. ORS Elasti-ci-tea leave in (my favorite right now), and also some thick conditioner like Aussie Moist. However if I really really had to cut those products down to just one, I think my hair could survive on salt water and shea butter alone.

How do you tackle negative comments about being Natural?

B: I love natural hair on anyone.. for anyone to criticize what is growing out of my (or anyone else’s) scalp, what my ancestors gave me is definitely good enough for me so I don’t hang onto negative outside opinions. I let it go. But honestly I haven’t gotten too many, and I guess if I did I have blocked them out. But I would say to anyone if/when you do get them, just dust off your shoulders and move on. I have no time for haters so I don’t let them drag me down to their level.

Do you have a goal length?

B: Yes I do.. I’d like to be bra strap length unstretched. I just recently saw a picture of myself at 6 or 7 years old, and I had a mane of hair that was bra strap length despite not having an ideal hair care regimen (can you say fine toothed comb, Johnson’s baby shampoo, and NO conditioner in sight for yearrrrrrs). So I’m hoping that I can get back to that length. Considering how badly my hair was treated early on I’m surprised it was able to grow that long. I’m hoping that with the care I give my hair now it will get there once again.

Do you have staple treatments(ie.henna,deep treatment, bentonite)

B: My treatments right now are just doing deep conditioning, again as needed since I don’t have a regular schedule of treatments. I use a base conditioner that is cheap like Suave or White Rain. Then I will add either olive oil or melted shea butter to that base. I don’t measure so I just make my formulas to the thickness that I like. Lately I tried a mayonnaise and olive oil deep conditioner so that I could get some protein, and although messy it worked well for me.

How have you handled your worse hair days?

B: On the worst hair days a bun will be my best friend.

How do you retain moisture?

B: I try to keep my hair moist by giving it water from the inside (drinking it) and outside (wetting it). Also applying my conditioner and shea butter to the ends helps. But honestly, if the moisture level isn’t there I apply water and conditioner until it’s feeling better. It’s really a day to day process and the more you are in tune with your hair the easier it gets.

What would be your advice to someone thinking of transitioning?

B: Go for it! Don’t be afraid of your hair.

What have been your fave styles to acheive healthy hair?

B: I’m not much of a stylist, but I have tried to teach myself a few simple styles that work. I favor loose buns, the challah updo (see Crownofhisglory on youtube to see styling directions), or just a twisted crown style, all of which are quick five minute styles. As much as I love twists and braids, they do not look good on me so I’m definitely envious of you thick haired ladies who can do a two week twist set.

If you make any homemade concoctions would you like to share?

B: An easy rinse for the hair is to boil rosemary in water, let it cool, and run the cooled tea over your hair after you wash. It gives a nice tingle to the scalp and rosemary is supposed to aid in hair growth. I don’t know if rosemary tea rinses have helped my hair grow but I really like that tingly sensation, especially down here in very humid hot South Florida.

And The Winner Is.....

2009-04-05T05:55:00.000-07:00

Congrats to curly Nadine!

Winner of the Lustrasilk contest

My cousin Abeo give me my first comment she have always been natural and was the first to notice and realized that i was transitioning, seeing as i was 15 and transitioning i kinda keep it under raps cuz i didn't want to be criticized by friends with my new choice to be natural, i was wearing braid-out or Bantu's back then. it really meant a lot to me to have some one who could help me and support me and know what works for natural hair and even more so cuz we had similar hair seeing as were family and with very strong genes, she's 3 year older then me and i really look up to her and she is now my fav hair idol. i have a lot to thank her for as i am still learning my hair.

I'm attaching a file to show you how lovely her hair is i really do adore her hair.

~Ladies if you have products that didn't work for you, recycle them here at H&N and curlies can share wonderful stories like Nadine's! :) Email me at Happynappe@gmail.com if you would like to participate. I will reimburse all s&h charges♥

Thank You

2009-04-03T04:59:00.000-07:00

I want to take the time to thank all of the beautiful curly women that check out my blog :) I work daily to think of new and innovative ideas to keep it fresh and growing. Remember that you too are a very important part of H&N and I am always open to ideas. Tell me what you like, don't like so far, and things you may want to see and I'll try my best to get it done! ;) Again thank YOU for supporting Haute&Natural!!!♥

Remember the Lustrasilk contest ends

tomorrow @ midnight!

Hairspiration

2009-04-01T06:48:00.000-07:00

Nicole Fiscella

As Isabel on Gossip Girl I love her! This beauty of Indian and St. Lucian

ancestry is also the leading lady in

LL Cool J's video, "Baby".

Hair Quote of the Day

2009-03-31T07:32:00.000-07:00

The person who doesn't scatter the morning dew

will not comb grey hairs

~Irish Proverb

Enjoy your day everyone!!!♥

Haute Girl CClark1!

2009-03-30T10:58:00.000-07:00

CClark1

Atlanta, GA

How long have/did you transistion?
C:I transitioned for one full year (Sept 07-Sept 08)
What is your daily hair regiemin?
C:It depends on how I wear my hair. I've been doing a lot of twist updos. I oil my hair with Castor oil and pin my twists up.
How do you protect your hair at night?
C:I sleep in a satin nightcap.
If you were stranded on a deserted island, what three hair items would you have to have? C:Castor oil, any Aubrey Organics product, and bobby pins
How do you tackle negative comments about being Natural?
C:I ignore them!
What made you decide to become a curly girl?
C:I had been encouraged by a few hairdressers and friends to make that move. Plus I had some damage due to not taking very good care of my hair. And my hair just wasn't growing long like I wanted it to grow. I needed to do something drastic!
Do you have a goal length?
C:BSL for now. And when I get there, I'm sure that goal will change ;)
Do you have staple treatments(ie.henna,deep treatment, bentonite)
C:I make my own herbal hair growth and conditioning teas to drink and condition my hair. I also just started deep conditioning my hair with 1/3 aloe, 1/3 honey and 1/3 Aubrey Blue Camomile Conditoner. This leaves my hair so moisturized and soft.
How have you handled your worse hair days?
C:Grin and bare it, chile!
What have been your fave styles to acheive healthy hair?
C:Twist updos, braiding my natural hair (my summer staple) and rocking a big curly fro.
What would be your advice to someone thinking of transitioning?
C:Have a goal in mind. Ask yourself why are you doing it? Don't worry about silly things like the texture you think your hair will be when it's all said and done. And don't get discouraged on bad hair days because you will have them.

CClark1 Fotki

Another (Wo)Man's Treasure...

2009-03-29T08:06:00.000-07:00

After the many rave reviews, I went to my local Sally Beauty Supply and purchased Lustrasilk Shea Butter Cholesterol. After attempting to use it on two twist and curls, the product is just not for me so up for grabs is a 20oz bonus size! :) Just answer this simple question:

Who gave you your first vote of confidence for rockin' those

beautiful Natural locs and how did it change you?

Submit your answer to Happynappe@gmail.com by midnight Saturday, April 4th with Lustrasilk in the subject field. I'll post the best response on next Sunday!♥

Ann's Curly Story

2009-03-27T17:21:00.000-07:00

This is a beautiful story that goes far beyond hair. Thank you Ann for sharing such an amazing story!♥

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You can feature it or not, but here's my story. I think maybe it's worth telling and maybe it will help some other curly girl stand up for her curls. IF YOU HAVE CURLY HAIR, THE PEOPLE WHO CLAIM TO LOVE YOU SHOULD LOVE YOUR HAIR TOO. They may not always like how it looks, but they should still love your hair just the same - just because it's *your* hair.

I was a curly girl from the time I was small. The genetic lotto between both of my multiple mixed race parents decreed that I popped out with my maternal (Jewish) grandfather's red hair, my maternal grandmother's (Cherokee) golden skin tone, and father's Welsh ancestor's Hazel/Green eyes. However, I also got my African American ancestor's curls. In the infamous words of one of my uncles, "the only color our ancestors were concerned with was pink. Nothing else really seemed to matter much to them." My physical appearance is strictly the luck of the genetic lotto that occured during conception.

When I finally found a man that I settled down with, he didn't like curly hair. He said it was unruly and told me how much prettier it was when I straightened it. After much encouragement from him, I finally went more or less permanently straight. My hair didn't take to it well, but I manhandled it and forced it to be straight. I just wish I'd known then what I know now. That was the first of many things about he that he decided he needed to change. Little by little, over the 12 years we were together, he has changed where I work, who I associate with, and what activives I was allowed to participate in. It wasn't all at once. You see, if you'd have tried to steal my life in one big chunk, I'd have fought back. Instead it was one tiny slice at a a time.

Before I knew it, I wasn't doing any of the things I used to do. Gone was all the things that I used to do that were fun. Many of friendships that I had revolved around those activities and so a lot of those friends went with them. Slowly the relationship changed from one of mutual caring to one of control and emotional abuse. It was subtle and gradual. Then when my friends would complain to me about his behavior, he would isolate me from that person. One by one, I lost almost all of my friends. There is a scant handful of them left in my life now.

Things finally reached a head last fall. He actually had the nerve to tell me that my curls were N-ery and that's why he didn't like them. He admitted that he had wanted me to straighten my hair so that I'd look "whiter". Mind you, his family is Cajun - very mixed - so he has no room to be throwing around racist remarks. When I called him out on it, his reply was that at least he didn't look like a N-. We fought bitterly over that issue. It got to a point that at least one of my friends was concerned for my personal saftety, if not my sanity. She staged what amounts to an intervention to point out what he'd been doing. I'd been so busy looking at the trees, I failed to realize that I was in the middle of a forest. As a professional therapist, she was well aware of his behavior and she saw the patterns that I did not.

After what's been a fairly long and some what abusive relationship, I filed for divorce in January. One of my first acts of "rebellion" against the previous and externally established order in my life was to return to being a curly girl. Because of that, my curly hair has become a symbol of my newly found and hard won freedom. My curls are one part of my identity that I supressed and submerged in an attempt to be loveable. What did that get me? An abusive relationship that I now have to work to recover from. Now my curls are a banner. Any man who doesn't like my curls will be promptly told to take a hike.

TIA,

Ann

I <3 Oyin

2009-03-26T06:59:00.000-07:00

When I first read about Juices & Berries nourishing herbal leave in on various hair forums I literally thought women were using juices and berries in their hair(lol)! And of course Akeem and letting my "soul glo" were the second thought. It's been about a week since I recieved my order of Oyin Juices & Berries and I have been pleased since day one of using it. My hair has been incredibly soft and manageable! I can say I have yet to have a bad puff day. I use it at night after I do my two strand twist and again in the morning to top off my puff.

This leave in has a pleasant smell and is filled with beneficial ingredients like horsetail, aloe vera juice, nettle, and flaxseeds. The product does take a while to ship because every product is made with love :). I think it took about two weeks to receive but the company was wonderful on follow through and sent me an email once the order was processed and shipped. I have nothing but great things to say about the company and the product is worth every penny! I plan on ordering the sample pack soon(and by soon I mean today, lol)♥

Cerendipity...A Haute Girl

2009-03-25T06:16:00.000-07:00

Have you BC'D(or planning to) and if so what prompted your decision?
C:I didn’t BC my hair; I did what they called little chops. At the time I just keep putting in either braids or weaves. I would take them down and clip the ends because it didn’t match the rest of my hair

How have family and friends embraced your beautiful locs?
C: My family is on board now but they had many words to say and still do about “nappy hair”

How do you survive a bad hair day?
C:By throwing a puff in my hair and holding my head high!

What's your hair care regimen?
C:I pre-poo with an oil the night before I wash, the next day I co-wash with a conditioner ( usually HE Hydration), followed by a herbal rinse and then a ACV rinse. After that I apply my leave in, and braid to dry overnight. The next day is when I section my hair to either braid it or twist. I only wash every 2 weeks in the winter. The spring and summer time, is usually depending on my hair style when I might co-wash once a week.

What have been your most successful products?
C:I love Qhemet Biologics Amla& Olive Heavy Cream, Burdock Butter Cream, Olive &Honey Hydrating Balm, Amla Pomade, and Cocoa Tree Detangling Ghee. To be honest her line is my top Staple, followed by Myashas, Afroveda, and Hairveda

What have been your fave styles to acheive healthy hair?
C:I love to wear mini braids, or two strand twists to keep my hair healthy , however if I could I would wear a puff every day.

How do you track your progress?
C:I track my progress by how healthy my hair is and how it feels. I’m not into length checks because you will drive yourself nuts, just focus on the health and all else will follow

What is the best advice you would give to someone who is thinking of transitioning?
C:Transition your mind before your hair… it’s easy to say I want to go natural but when everyone around you puts their outlook on how “you” should look to “them” , you start to doubt yourself.

Spring Fever

2009-03-24T15:25:00.000-07:00

The vibrant color and fabulous woman on the cover of April's issue of Essence was a must have recently. While thumbing through the issue I noticed all the beautiful natural woman that were featured.

This month, the issue also features Atlanta's hottest natural hair care products:

*Miss Jessie's Curly Pudding

*Miss Jessie's Baby Buttercreme

*Kinky Curly Curling Custard

*Jane Carter Solution Nutrient Replenishing Conditioner

*Hair Rules Daily Cleansing Cream Moisture No Suds Shampoo

There are quite a few women featured rocking beautiful Natural styles! I also learned that Serena Williams is Natural! How awesome is that?! I love her recent look of old Hollywood glamour. She recommends a leave-in conditioner by a company called Phyto that I'm sure will be adding to my PJ stash :)

I think the issue is a must have going into Spring♥

Hairspiration

2009-03-23T14:02:00.000-07:00

Jada Pinkett Smith

I absolutely LOVE this pint-sized diva! Not only does she have a banging bod, her hair is awesome. I almost served a product junkie fix by ordering her "chosen" Carol Daughter's products. She is my ideal idol because I love her versatility and length♥

Who inspires you?!

I'm Sprung On Spring

2009-03-20T21:03:00.000-07:00

Today is the first day of Spring and I couldn't be happier! :) This season brings out a whole new me...I enjoy the beautiful days and I love to watch everything come alive. I started my Spring early taking my natural hair journey and already my hair is "blooming". I have enjoyed getting to know fabulous women with fabulous hair! I enjoy not caring how I style my hair because my theory is,"anything natural is CUTE!". I've enjoyed the constant complements on my hair and rocking it natural. I love embracing MYSELF and owning my confidence for becoming natural. I have enjoyed being my own guinea pig and experimenting with various natural products that have helped my hair. I've had fun spending money weekly on a habit other than clothes(lol)! I love going on the different forums, reading blogs, and Googling till no tomorrow. My Spring sprung while the snow was still falling on the ground but since it's officially here today, I'm an even happier camper!♥

Hair Quote of the Day

2009-03-19T21:34:00.000-07:00

I'm a big woman. I need big hair.

~Aretha Franklin

Haute Girl~JairMadison

2009-03-18T20:24:00.000-07:00

JarMadison

Queens, NY

What's you hair care regiemin?
J:Henna bi-weekly (started out with four weekly treatments that I've just completed)
Bentonite bi- weekly (haven't done since I've started henna but I loved the results once I got my mix right)
I co-wash every two to three days with Traders Jo's Nourish Spa, Aussie Moist or HH. Occasionally I'll use AOHSR
I use AOHSR as my leave in, then some KBB and seal with hair cream or mimosa hair honey then I let it dry occasionally using duck bill clips to keep my edges from riding off into the night

What have been your fave styles to acheive healthy hair?

J:I like big crazy hair so styling, particularly protective styling aren't my thing (yet) but I keep it moisturized, sleep with the prerequisite silk scarf and satin pillow cases and keep my co-washes down to three a week (most times).

What made you decide to become a curly girl?
J:Initially I stopped relaxing in 1997 and did the bc (really big, like boy cut to the scalp big). I was tired of depending on a perm. My hair would react so badly when I put off a touch up. I became aware of how addictive relaxing is. Fast forward past me cutting loc's and having a fateful breakdown in August of '03 that lead to a relaxer that I was feeling for 1 day and then to now. I was tired of frying my hair everyday and just wanted to be. I knew it was time.
How do you survive a bad hair day?
J:I just keep it moving and believe me I've had some bad ones. I just tell myself today I have a funky fro, through on some earrings and hit the streets.
What is the best advice you would give to someone who is thinking of transitioning?
J:Go forth fearlessly. There is so much in this world to tell you're that you're not enough just as you are and need to conform to the masses but do you and nothing says I'm doing me more than letting your hair grow that way it comes out of your scalp. No matter how many people share your hair type, no one will have hair like yours and that's powerful. Oh, and there will be bad days but this too shall pass.
Who are your "hair idols"?
J:Bree from ANTM, Tracie Ellis Ross, Curly Nikki and my momma because when she wears her hair curly, its game OVA!

I'm always looking for people with a hair story to tell!

If you'd like to be featured as a Haute Girl

contact me at Happynappe@gmail.com

Get Growing

2009-03-17T19:49:00.000-07:00

Thanks to Mother Nature I had a bout with a horrible sinus infection. Having the weekend off and rain washing the pollen away gave me time to recover. While sick I was able to try a tea I had that is actually for hair, skin, and nails.

The tea is very smooth and has a wonderful lemon flavor with a hint of peppermint. It also has herbs that are beneficial in promoting healthy growth. If you're not a hot tea drinker, it is also recommended drinking cold. A container of 36 tea bags will run you $11 and can be found at GNC.

Ingredients

Organic Rooibos (leaf), Peppermint (leaf), Horsetail (aerial parts), Stinging Nettle (aerial parts), Oatstraw, Black Limon.

As I started feeling better over the weekend, I did another henna treatment(I'm hooked) :) I also tried EVOO in the Pantene Nature Fusion shampoo I talked about in a previous post. I now give it a definite thumbs up♥

Hairspiration

2009-03-13T21:49:00.000-07:00

Jessi M'Bengue

Since I've been on my hair journey I love looking at beautiful women with awesome hair! :)

This French born model is killin' the fro! She is surely one who keeps me focused♥

Who inspires you?

Hair Quote of the Day

2009-03-12T06:52:00.000-07:00

The hair is the richest ornament of women. ~Martin Luther

Haute Girl MALA!

2009-03-10T23:25:00.000-07:00

Have you BC'D(or planning to) and if so what prompted your decision?
M:I BC’D on 22 February, 2009 after 10 (almost 11) months of transitioning. I had originally planned to transition longer, but I realized being natural was more important to me than length, so I went ahead and did it! Best decision I could have made! Detangling is much easier, I use less product and wash-and-go’s are great.

How have family and friends embraced your beautiful locs?
M:My family and friends love my hair, especially because it’s different. My little sister and I are the only naturals in our very big family. And speaking of my little sis, (she’s 11) she loves my hair the most and couldn’t wait for me to BC so that we can have a “Sister Fro Day”. I am proud to say that I have instilled an absolute love for natural hair within her! My SO (significant other) also loves my hair and always compliments the styles I have been trying out.

What's you hair care regimen?

M:My hair regimen is and always has been pretty simple. I have about 4 staple products that I use which are
1) V05 Herbal Escapes Conditioner
2) Dabur Amla hair oil
3) Extra Virgin Olive Oil (EVOO)/Castor Oil
4) ORS Replenishing Deep Conditioner
I basically wet my hair every day in the shower and will co-wash using V05 Herbal Escapes Conditioner around every 3 days. After wetting my hair I usually put in a bit of Dabur Amla Hair Oil or an EVOO/ Castor Oil mix; then I style as desired. Once a week I deep condition using ORS Replenishing Deep Conditioner. This has been my regimen throughout my transition as well as now that I am completely natural.
How long is/was your transition process?
M:I transitioned for 10, almost 11 months.

What is the best advice you would give to someone who is thinking of transitioning?
M:The best advice I would give to someone who is thinking of transitioning is to look at a variety of hair types and lengths and envision yourself with them. I have read many threads where women have been disappointed with their hair after BCing because they had decided what they wanted their hair to look like instead of considering all possibilities and ended up with a completely different result. To go natural one must be open to learning and loving any texture that they might end up having.

Henna Kissed Hair

2009-03-10T20:43:00.000-07:00

Monday was officially "hair pamper" day. I started the day with a shampoo and conditioner and then clarified with an ACV rinse. I finally got around to trying Pantene R&N Hair Mask for a deep condition. Confessions of a product junkie coming soon....(lol). I'm glad I did the deep condition because it made my hair extremely easy to comb through and detangle prior to the henna. Once all that was said and done came the fun part...applying the henna!
Everyone has their own mixture and I'm sure I'll try several before its all said and done. Here's what I used:
1. I mixed 1gm of Jamila henna with about 1 1/2cups of Dr. Stuart's Skin Purify tea. I also added honey while mixing.
Henna has the consistency of cake batter so when mixing, you have to make sure you scrape the bottom to assure you mix all the powder.

2. I applied the henna soon after I mixed it. Also prior to applyin the mixture I used Vasoline around my neckline, hairline, and ears(for those who remember the perm days)so it wouldn't stain. I didn't lay down towels or newspaper but it is recommened that you do so because application can get messy. I squished the henna throughout my hair from root to tip using my fingers to unravel any tangles. The less manipulation the better.
3. Once I applied all the henna I used two plastic caps because I was going out later. Henna IS heavy on the head and you will feel like a bobble head(lol). You can also use two if applying overnight so the henna won't spill onto your pillowcase.
I kept the henna on for about five hours, sitting under the dryer for the last 30 minutes to help release more of the color.
4. I used the kitchen sink to rinse out the henna. A lot of rinsing because there's a lot of grit. I did a co-wash with my trusty V05 and styled.

I like the results of my first treatment. My gray strands are orange but I read that's expected. Besides, its only noticeable to me. I think I'll do them weekly and slack off after a few months.♥

Pantene Day

2009-03-09T12:31:00.000-07:00

I'm under the dryer doing a deep treatment with Pantene R&N hair mask and thought I' share my review of Pantene's Nature Fusion Moisture Balance shampoo and conditioner. This is a new line from Pantene that contains cassia for strength and shine. There is also a Nature Fusion Smooth Vitality version and the ingredients are slightly different. I was lucky enough to pick it up at CVS a few weeks ago for $2.99/each. I think they were well worth the money. I do an ACV rinse so I don't worry about build up. Once I'm done with my DT, I'll be doing my first henna treatment. I'll let you know how that goes.♥

The shampoo

Water , Sodium Laureth Sulfate , Cocamidopropyl Betaine , Sodium Chloride , Cocamide MEA , Cassia Hydroxypropyltrimonium Chloride , Cassia Tora Seed , Cassia Obtusifolia Seed , Aloe Barbadensis Leaf Juice Powder , Calendula Officinalis Flower Extract , Ginger Root Extract - Zingiber Officinale , Panthenol , Panthenyl Ethyl Ether , Citric Acid , Corn Starch , Sugar Cane , Dimethiconol , Fragrance , Sodium Benzoate , Disodium EDTA , PEG-7M , Methylchloroisothiazolinone , Methylisothiazolinone , Sodium Citrate , Sodium Xylenesulfonate , Yellow 5 , Orange 4

It has a nice lather and doesn't take a lot which means I'll have it for a while. It also has a light pleasant sent. My only con with it is the overly clean feeling you get. I prefer soft and manageable hair even before I condition so the next time I will use EVOO or jojoba oil with it.

The conditioner

Water , Stearyl Alcohol , Palm Oil , Palm Kernel Oil , Coconut Oil , Cyclopentasiloxane , Cetyl Alcohol , Palm Oil , Palm Kernel Oil , Coconut Oil , Behenamidopropyl Dimethylamine , Cassia Hydroxypropyltrimonium Chloride , Cassia Tora Seed , Cassia Obtusifolia Seed , Aloe Barbadensis Leaf Juice Powder , Calendula Officinalis Flower Extract , Ginger Root Extract - Zingiber Officinale , Panthenol , Panthenyl Ethyl Ether , Citric Acid , Corn Starch , Sugar Cane , Dimethicone , Glutamic Acid , Benzyl , Fragrance , EDTA , Methylchloroisothiazolinone , Methylisothiazolinone , Yellow 5 , Orange 4

This is an awesome conditioner! I could see myself using this as a co-wash or even as a leave-in. The slip is great and again the smell is pleasant. It's an A+ in my book. This line also has a leave in fusion smoothing cream that I haven't yet looked into.

$ale $unday

2009-03-08T19:55:00.000-07:00

For all the PJ's(product junkies)out there, I thought I'd share the savings on some favorite products♥
@ CVS
Garnier Fructis poo & conditioner
3/$10
Aussie & Herbal Essences poo & conditioner
$2.88 w/limit of 6

@Target
Burt's Bee poo
$7.99

@GNC

Now essential oils are BOGO(buy 1, get 1 1/2 off)

"I Am My Hair"

2009-03-07T05:34:00.000-08:00

I wrote this entry titled, "I Am My Hair" on August 23, 2008 from an old blog I use to keep. Just thought I'd share....♥

I'm on a true journey to grow longer, healthier hair. When I was about 5 or 6 years old, I had hair down my back. As I got older, momma opted for me to get a perm and a beautician made the mistake of leaving some in. Yep...But even in high school it was chin length sometimes longer when I didn't get in my cut it off phase. I suffer from alopecia and I am so tired of wasting money on the sorry dermatologists in my city that are suppose to be "the bomb"(whatev). They look at my scalp for about 5 sec and "diagnose" what I already know. See, my mom's side of the family suffers from it. My mom, all of her sister's except one, her two brother's, and even my grandmother had it. My brother even has it. I want a more thorough analysis so I've even been researching doctors in Atlanta. In the meantime, I have been Au natural for over a year and have been wearing wigs to give my tresses a rest from heat and styling. So this week I put up the wigs and now I want to try wearing my own hair. It's at an okay length but I am drooling over homegirl here in the picture....So thanks to the downtime at work I have been researching additional supplements that I can use to stimulate blood flow to the scalp and promote growth. I have been using GNC ultra-nourish, Women's Ultra Mega multi-vit, and fish oil for over a year. I take protein after my workout so no problem with deficiency there. I have added flax seed oil, vit E, CoQ10, MSM, and several other supplements. I also use our shampoos and conditioners I find while doing markdowns. Giovanni Tea Tree shampoo and conditioner for .97/each...can't beat it! My fav is anything containing Tea Tree oil because they feel sooooo good on the scalp! I've even gone old school and roll my hair at night because I have a horrible habit of plugging in the curlers in the morning. I found these awesome satin rollers by Hype Hair in Wal-Mart and they work beautifully! I already know my crazy, impatient tail is going to expect results like my inspiration photo in a month or so. I'm going to stick with it because I want my hair length from days of ol'. Sorry India Irie but I AM my hair...

Drumroll Please!

2009-03-06T07:01:00.000-08:00

I'm proud to announce my first "Haute Girl"! I will feature beautiful women who are or have transitioned. Every woman has a different way of doing things so when my advice doesn't work, hopefully a Haute Girls will!♥

~Introducing Black Hoya Chick

Jersey City, NJ~

Have you BC'D(or planning to) and if so what prompted your decision?

BHC:BC-ing is the ENEMY! LOL just kidding, but in February I started trimming and inch for every inch that grows. But on August 22, I plan on chopping whatever is left. I want to go back to school all natural. I should have between 8-9 inches then.

What made you decide to become a curly girl?

BHC:I was programmed/brainwashed as a child into thinking that I had bad hair that needed to be tamed i.e. relaxed. But one day I was looking at old pictures and looking at my current relaxed hair and saw how thin and lifeless it had become. I was like "didn't I used to have super thick hair?" So at that moment, I decided to stop perming. But at the time I planned on keeping it pressed straight. It was a few months later when I decided to be a NATURAL natural. As time went on (and I stopped using shampoo) and I saw my curly newgrowth in full effect, I was upset I had spent so much money on an expensive flat iron that I was rarely gonna use. I had been nothing but straight for the last 8 years so I needed a MAJOR break.

How do you track your progress?

BHC:I take a lot of pictures. I was an avid fotki user but they are trippin'! trying so hard to make people pay now...but I digress LOL. I also measure my hair twice a month (beginning and end) to make sure I am actually growing.

What's you hair care regimen?

BHC: I like to believe its simple.

1. cowash daily - detangle daily

2. moisturize and seal

3. pull hair back into a puff/bun

4. take down hair at night, spray a little water to add some overnight moisture, put in two big twists and clip them up, then put on satin sleep cap.

5. repeat

THAT'S ALL! =)

What have been your most successful products?

BHC:my fab-5: Suave Naturals Tropical Coconut, Hollywood Beauty Olive Oil, Fantasia IC Olive Styling Gel, honey, and baking soda

How have family and friends embraced your beautiful locs?

BHC:I have one friend who annoys my life by telling me to straighten it and one of my brothers keeps telling me to get a perm (very annoying). But besides those two, everyone loves the idea and is actually quite supportive =)

Bentonite clay= WOW factor!

2009-03-05T16:07:00.000-08:00

Wednesdays are usually my co-wash days so last night I decided to try a bentonite clay hair mask since I have read so many wonderful reviews on CurlyNikki.com, NC.com, and I even viewed a few YouTube vids on it. Anitagrant.com has very thorough information on the benefits of the clay for face, hair, and body. In relation to the hair, bentonite clay contains trace minerals such as silica and calcium that are a must for strong and healthy hair. It helps remove dirt and oil buildup and detoxify the scalp. I've seen various recipes for this clay treatment but I decided to use the following:
bentonite clay(1/4 cup)
coconut milk(mixed until batter formed)
honey

The clay opened

-I saturated my hair and applied the clay. After I worked it through my hair from root to tip, I put on a shower cap and let the clay sit for 30 mins. DO NOT let it dry! I felt a tingly feeling about 15-20 mins in.

The clay while I was mixing
- When I got ready to rinse, I dunked my hair in the sink and then made sure I rinsed the clay thoroughly. I've read people say they have a gritty feel after rinsing but I didn't(guess I rinsed it all out). I did however notice a difference in my texture for the better =) My hair was manageable and easy to comb through.
-After rinsing I did a co-wash with V05 herbal escape and rinsed. I then applied Lustrasilk Shea Butter cholesterol plus, unrefined shea butter to my ends, did about 10 two strand twists, put on my satin bonnet and called it a night!
I did the face treatment this morning and enjoyed those benefits as well!
Here are my hair results:

♥

ACV, EVOO, KCCC...OMG!!!

2009-03-04T08:12:00.000-08:00

That's how I felt the first day I logged onto NC.com. Overwhelmed by all the lingo the ladies were throwing out there(lol). I even remember sending a picture to my girl and she complimented, "you're officially a CG!" and my response..."What's a CG?". Luckily I had her to ask because I would NEVER have the nerve to ask. I have seen on the forums where women will ask what does, APL or TWA means but for those ladies who are like me and would never be so bold I got your cheat sheet right here. HTH(hope that helps)♥
ACV=Apple cider vinegar

Used as a rinse to remove build up and balance hair's PH balance

TWA=Teeny Weeny Afro

Ladies achieve this after doing the big chop

BC=Big Chop

Big chop doesn't always mean cutting all of your hair off, just cutting out the relaxed hair
CG=Curly girl
Using the no-poo or sulfate free shampoo, washing hair with conditioner, using little or no heat, etc.
APL=Arm pit length
SL=Shoulder length
BSL=Bra strap length

KCCC=Kinky Curly Curling Custard

A lot of natural women's holy grail. Great styling aid for wash-and-go's. I love it!

AO=Aubrey Organics

A line of all natural hair, body, and skin care products

HE=Herbal Essence

A lot of women like the Hello Hydration conditioner for co-washes. I bought a sample at Wal-Mart but haven't used it yet.

HG=Holy Grail

Product that you dare not leave out of your regimen!

DT=Deep treatment

Conditioning method when you sit under a dryer for approx. 15-20 mins.

EVOO= Extra virgin olive oil

Nourishes and conditions hair

FSG=Flax seed gel

Natural hair gel that doesn't leave hair crunchy like so commercial products

EO=Essential Oils

Natural oils that are used with various hair recipes

From The Inside, Out

2009-03-03T06:34:00.000-08:00

Nutrition plays such a crucial role in how our body ticks. Our circulation, our digestive tract, and especially our immune system all play a crucial role in promoting healthy hair. Working as a store manager at GNC I would have so many women come in looking for biotin or horsetail to help with hair growth and I would ask this one simple question, "Do you start your morning with breakfast?". Then I get a million and one excuses:

"I usually just drink a cup of coffee(or Coke)."

"Girl no, I have kids to get ready for school."

"My day is so hectic I usually only eat once a day."

I'm a firm believer in, "You are what you eat" and taking a vitamin that promotes healthy hair, skin, and nails is great but it contains vitamins and minerals to do just that. Where is your fiber, your daily servings of fruits and veggies, your digestive enzymes? So my ladies would walk out the store thinking they were on their way to beautiful hair. WRONG!

Poor circulation, stress, vitamin deficiencies, and a poor diet are all factors in unhealthy hair and hair loss. So following the right regimen and putting in your body what you may miss throughout the day is essential. My own personal vitamin intake varies from time to time but currently I take the following:

GNC Women's Ultra Mega(Multi-Vit)

Natural E 400IU(2x a day)

-increases oxygen uptake, which in turn improves circulation

MSM 1500mg

-required for the builing block of protein

Fish Oil 300mg

-Keeps the hair from getting dry & brittle

Stinging Nettle 500mg

-stimulates hair follicles

Biotin 5000mcg(5mg)

-promotes healthy hair, skin, and nails

There are additional vitamins, minerals, and herbs that are beneficial such as silica, vitamin C w/bioflavonoids, kelp, etc. I also do a body cleanse every six months to elevate excess toxins out of my body. I stay hydrated by drinking an ample amount of water through out the day. When I know my digestive system doesn't feel up to par I take a probiotic to get back on track. I eat pretty healthy, cutting out added or excess sugars and salt.

So before you become that product junkie, be sure that you're focusing on your inside as much as your outside and your hair will definitely reap the rewards!♥

Welcome!

2009-03-02T23:42:00.000-08:00

I wanted to start this blog to help myself and other newbies on their hair journey. In the couple of months that I made the commitment to achieve healthier, longer hair, I have absorbed so much information from so many wonderful ladies. I love all the info and support. I have also purchased soooo many products(lol). I want to use this as a "newbie" reference site to keep me motivated, keep my hands out my hair(lol), and continue to learn. I will give my opinion on various products that I have read are some women's holy grail, I will review products that I have seen listed on several hair forums, I will call on "veterans" in the hair game to share advice, and I will document my own journey. So sit back, relax, and subscribe! May God bless♥

I want all this hair back!!!

~Haute&Natural~

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Henna Kissed Hair

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$ale $unday

"I Am My Hair"

*Drumroll Please!*

Bentonite clay= WOW factor!

ACV, EVOO, KCCC...OMG!!!

From The Inside, Out

Welcome!

Drumroll Please!